Two Views ~ Friday 3 December 2021

Hello, we hope you have all had a good week and aren’t getting buried under too many ‘to-do’ lists? We have had delivery drivers turn up at our door over the last week drenched from driving rain and, at times, snow. We are grateful to them all, as neither of us likes shopping! Love to you all, Tim and Jane. X

I keep flirting with my boss. I have a horrible feeling he’s uncomfortable with it, but I just can’t help myself. JJ, Romford

Tim: Please stop it now. This could spell disaster for everyone.

Jane: Hello JJ, have you paused to ask yourself why you do this, my lovely? Understanding your ‘Why’ is the key to everything you choose to do. Picture me as a best friend with your highest good in my heart, standing in front of you and saying clearly ‘Please stop’. If you continue, this could blow up in all sorts of ways, and you could even end up losing your job. Your boss is in an impossible position, especially given the changes rolling through our society. Out of loving care for you both, start to write down your thoughts before any face to face encounter. Try and record your feelings and the emotions driving you to do this and then let your mind float free on what you could channel these feelings into. Something that nurtures you and brings you solace. Maybe something you have always wanted to learn or try? Our minds are like a wayward puppy, as they can wander off into all sorts of directions. Bring your mind gently back to the thing that you are choosing to do, that nurtures you, every time it wanders off towards thoughts of your boss. Nip this in the bud as soon as the thoughts start, and then new actions will follow. Gently, you will find you can think of new thoughts and act differently. Hugs. X

We have new restrictions and are now wearing masks again in shops and on the buses and trains. I am so tired and found myself going into my usual grocery store without wearing one after work yesterday. I got some strange looks, but there were others in there who weren’t wearing one either. I am weary of being told what to do and have a horrible feeling the government are building up to telling us about other restrictions around Christmas. I am so fed up with all of this. JT, Halifax

Tim: After all these months I’m sick of it too but it’s for the greater good.

Jane: Hello JT, wrapping you in soft hugs. The pandemic jolted everyone into ‘fight or flight mode’ and we stepped up and have all done our best. It has rolled forward for over twenty months now and it is no surprise that you are weary. The energy in all of us has taken a direct hit, and the daily fear we have had to cope with has added to the fatigue. It is natural to feel that too much is being asked of us, to step up again. Do what you can manage, my lovely, as judgment is rife, and I am not going to add to that noise. Self-nurture and self-soothing are so important right now. Flow these to yourself as often as you can. I have a saying that has helped me through the toughest of times and it is this…’Every storm runs out of rain’. Hugs. X

Please feel free to send your questions to and we wish you all a lovely week to come.

Tim & Jane. X

22 thoughts on “Two Views ~ Friday 3 December 2021”

  1. I loved both of your responses to these questions but especially your comments Jane to the second question about not adding to the noise and flowing compassion. Thank you for the compassionate reply.

    1. There is so much judgement out there, isn’t there? Opinions springing out of fear, grief and loss. May we all hold each other with kindness. Much love to you and your girls, John. <3 xXx

  2. Both of your answers are great, Jane, and your loving compassion flows gracefully. As to masks, I understand what John is saying. I’m tired, too, and when my glasses fog up, it is annoying. But I’d rather be cautious and not join those who have lost their lives to this awful virus, while also protecting others. ❤️Much love to you…

    1. Hello my lovely, yes, we feel the same, as you and John. As Tim says, for the greater good. I feel we are only just starting to see the effect of all this on how people are feeling with the after-shocks. <3 xXx <3

  3. Always Jane your compassionate Nature flows out… And we need that compassion right now instead of judgement ..

    Glad you put your link in your previous comment Jane.. I do follow this blog, but don’t know why your link led me to your other blog the other day…

    Stay Blessed and yes we are all tired of being told what to do….
    <3 Much love to you both.. x

    1. Lovely Sue, how I value you and our connection. Yes, so much compassion is needed and no judgement in our world. Kindness, yummy food and little surprises go a long way too. Huge hugs to you and your hubbie, always. <3 xXx <3 <3

  4. As usual, the perfect responses – both short and long. Personally speaking, I think there are way more Covid cases everywhere these days because many people think once they’re vaxxed, they are invinsible and don’t need to mask. I know from reports here in my Province in Canada, our numbers are up and half the numbers have been double-vaxxed and get a mild case or are asymptomatic. Some people think because they’re vaxxed they ‘free’. Wearing masks saves the spread to others too, and likely, because the media has SO MUCH MISINFORMATION out there, people are making their own rules. Very messy this virus situation. Hugs to both and stay safe! <3 xoxox love flowing UB <3

    1. Oh my lovely, yes, way too much misinformation and being vaxxed, double vaxxed and booster vaxxed, in no way means we can’t pass it on. It’s on the rise again in the UK hence the new mandatory rule of mask wearing. Never have we needed common sense and kindness to others more than we do now. Huge love flowing to you, especially with your trip soon. I love you and thank you for taking the time to comment, and for your unstinting support. We both appreciate you, UB, always. <3 Xxx <3 <3

      1. Thanks so much Jane. And yes, I know well of what’s going on in UK. I’m glad that Canada has been unrelenting about the mask. I’m happy to say I’m thrilled for the way our country has continued with stringency. Better to wear the mask than to go back to brutal lockdowns right? Simpe. 🙂 <3 xoxo Hugs flowing UB <3

        1. Of course, you would know with your soul sister living over here. Absolutely, masks instead of lockdowns. The effects from those are only just starting to rumble through! Huge hugs, UB, and much love flowing to you. <3 xXx <3

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